Raw Thoughts: Gay/Lesbian Confusion???
Ok here we go, (Note: This blog is uncut, unedited. So you will see my entire thought process play out until I reach my final conclusion. No revisions except for spelling and grammar. ) Welcome to the first edition of…
I’ll start by saying your personal preferences are your choice and yours alone. I am not here to judge anyone. However, I do have one little I guess pet peeve so to speak when it comes to gay/lesbians and its mostly with the girls that I see this.
So the point of being gay is to have two people of the same sex. Guy and Guy. Girl and Girl. 2 men or 2 women. Right? Then tell me why I often see lesbian couples in which you have the “girl” and the “guy/girl” or the girl that looks like a guy. If you’re a lesbian you like girls. If there’s a need for masculinity then you obviously like men too. So should I think of these couples as bi-sexual individuals? Folks, you’re confusing me!
This sissy stuff needs to stop! That to me kills the entire definition of gay. Maybe I’m linking Masculinity/Femininity and Sex to tightly together. Because if I think gay, then I think a guy that is attracted to Men. This also to me constitutes attraction to masculinity NOT femininity. Right?? If you’re attracted to femininity then you like females.
Someone explain this to me…
Ok I’ll take another wack at it..
So a Lesbian female is attracted to females therefore she possess masculine traits. Ok this can explain the want to look male. So what’s the excuse for the girly lesbian?
Same thing with the guys, Gay man likes men and possess feminine traits so this can explain acting like a girl, but…… well ok maybe the guys get it because you often see both men acting feminine.
Yea um ladies I think it would make more sense if both parties looked like men. The girl/guy girl look is killing me. One of yall lying!
Well again this by far is not an attack on the Gay/Lesbian Community. I’m just trying to understand. Often times topics are so sensitive that people are afraid to talk about them, but without gaining understanding of each other how can we get alone. This goes for anything, Race, Creed, Religion, Sex.
Join me in the discussion. Comments are welcomed, please be respectful as all comments are subject to approval.
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